Apr 14, 2022·edited Apr 14, 2022Liked by Dennis Noel Kavanagh
The video is just so utterly repulsive and offensive on so many levels. If I had ever wanted “to eat pussy” I’d have had serious questions about my sexual orientation, and I don’t. And, no, that doesn’t make me phobic of transsexuals, I just don’t want to have sex with any of them.
Demons is another word. The worst part is how many gay men are encouraging these women and berating and cancelling other actual gay men for dissenting publicly.
I don’t understand why this isn’t seen as “ conversion therapy” it’s telling gay men to do something they have no desire or inclination to, and why can’t most people see this for what it is ?
I posted the link to this video on my twitter account and in the Facebook group Gay Partisan. I will mention your newsletter in the comments. I am also updating my Substack post on Trans craziness on YouTube to include this. I will be mentioning it in my upcoming weekly newsletter as well as a link to your substack. Thanks for bringing this to our attention.
This is conversion therapy isn't it? Absolute bunch of hypocrites to be doing this. They do not seem to hear or see any point of view that's valid except their own. This isn't activism, it's destruction.
It's by far the most insidious and potentially cruel version of conversion therapy because it takes the form of digital social pressure applied to the sexual boundaries of young homosexual males who are deeply vulnerable to suggestions they're not normal or that they can change who they are. This is some really very dark stuff.
Just when I think that the stupid has reached the end of the line, you come up this contradictory idiocy from these two pathetic excuses for gay men. They must surrender their gay cards for creating this absurd sexual foppery.
For those of us who are "exclusively gay" the mere suggestion of putting our mouths on a vagina is offensive and vomit inducing. I don't care how many times they call me a "transphobe" I'm definitely not interested in having any kind of sex or sexual relations with a biological female. Thanks for pointing this disturbing stuff out!
Are they trying to find new ways to shove us back in the closet with the help of clueless homosexuals? That's my take on this. I'm 60 and this is not what I fought for. This is a step back for lesbians and gay men.
You mention it here, and it is often emphasised in similar arguments elsewhere, that sexual activity between consenting adults is protected under the law, be they men or women.
I sometimes wonder why a more naturalistic argument is not more often used.
In my youth I was badly socialised as a man, I bent my gender a bit with odd combinations of clothes and on the whole did not gaf about how others expressed their gender/inner feelings/personality (identity was not really a word for it then in common language). Apart from one or two minor encounters with members of the same sex, I discovered that I was fairly rampantly heterosexual. I also discovered that I did not just want to do it with anybody, that somehow something sometimes happens between two people which more or less pulls them towards each other, and that unless something like this is happening, it is not going to be very good.
It is in this moment that much else can arise. Arguably the source of all human life on the planet - see Luce Irigaray for more on this - when a man and a woman come together in that dance of love and babymaking. Of course this should be seen as neither normative nor imperative, it does not mean that sex is only for making babies or that only men should do it with women. It remains a demonstrable fact that there is a powerful desire between sexuate human being to get sexual with each other, which is still, despite the seriousness of this strange cultural battlefield, magical and mysterious.
More importantly though, why are we not telling young people about this?
Presumably young folks today have as powerful impulses as my generation and go about their own voyages of sexual discovery ... or not?
Are they thwarted and stifled by the mass of misinformation and nonsense they hear from their TRA friends, put off by crass soulless internet porn, ashamed by something?
I don’t know the answers to these questions but it does seem to me worth pointing out that learning about sex and who you want to do it with are complex, fumbling processes. They go on for many years and touch upon a magical moment of chemistry between human bodies, whatever their genitalia, that pulls them together joyously and intimately.
Help yourself :-) although if you cite longer bits please acknowledge the source. Thanks :-) did you see my blog? It’s been a bit empty recently since I had the COVID. But I am hoping to get something together about paywalls and intellectual independence quite soon. Just have to put the finishing touches to my book :-)
Ffs, straight men are the ones who need this video, if the orgasm gap is anything to go by. It is not homosexual men’s job to pick up straight men’s slack! Just gross.
The video is just so utterly repulsive and offensive on so many levels. If I had ever wanted “to eat pussy” I’d have had serious questions about my sexual orientation, and I don’t. And, no, that doesn’t make me phobic of transsexuals, I just don’t want to have sex with any of them.
Absolute ghouls. No other words for this homophobic trash
Demons is another word. The worst part is how many gay men are encouraging these women and berating and cancelling other actual gay men for dissenting publicly.
I don’t understand why this isn’t seen as “ conversion therapy” it’s telling gay men to do something they have no desire or inclination to, and why can’t most people see this for what it is ?
I quite agree. Note paradoxically that these are the first people to claim to be against conversion therapy while they practice it.
I posted the link to this video on my twitter account and in the Facebook group Gay Partisan. I will mention your newsletter in the comments. I am also updating my Substack post on Trans craziness on YouTube to include this. I will be mentioning it in my upcoming weekly newsletter as well as a link to your substack. Thanks for bringing this to our attention.
He will not take it down but upload a follow-up video titled 'We need to talk about transphobia in the gay community' or some crap like this
It's disgraceful what these people are doing to gay men! At least you can speak freely and truthfully on here Dennis, unlike toxic Twitter!
This is conversion therapy isn't it? Absolute bunch of hypocrites to be doing this. They do not seem to hear or see any point of view that's valid except their own. This isn't activism, it's destruction.
I've posted this up on twitter.
It's by far the most insidious and potentially cruel version of conversion therapy because it takes the form of digital social pressure applied to the sexual boundaries of young homosexual males who are deeply vulnerable to suggestions they're not normal or that they can change who they are. This is some really very dark stuff.
Just when I think that the stupid has reached the end of the line, you come up this contradictory idiocy from these two pathetic excuses for gay men. They must surrender their gay cards for creating this absurd sexual foppery.
One is not a gay man, but a transman.
So, a heterosexual couple. How quaint.
Thank you for watching the video so I don’t have to, for fear I would throw up.
miss you on Twitter, bro. What they did to you was outrageous.
Eat pussy + gay men = oxymoron... or = just plain moron. Thanks for your observations, Dennis, much appreciated.
For those of us who are "exclusively gay" the mere suggestion of putting our mouths on a vagina is offensive and vomit inducing. I don't care how many times they call me a "transphobe" I'm definitely not interested in having any kind of sex or sexual relations with a biological female. Thanks for pointing this disturbing stuff out!
Are they trying to find new ways to shove us back in the closet with the help of clueless homosexuals? That's my take on this. I'm 60 and this is not what I fought for. This is a step back for lesbians and gay men.
Have these people ever had sex?
With an other actual human being, and not just for the cameras?
The last thing I’d want is an unwilling gay guy trying to persuade himself that he really should be attracted to my anatomy.
You mention it here, and it is often emphasised in similar arguments elsewhere, that sexual activity between consenting adults is protected under the law, be they men or women.
I sometimes wonder why a more naturalistic argument is not more often used.
In my youth I was badly socialised as a man, I bent my gender a bit with odd combinations of clothes and on the whole did not gaf about how others expressed their gender/inner feelings/personality (identity was not really a word for it then in common language). Apart from one or two minor encounters with members of the same sex, I discovered that I was fairly rampantly heterosexual. I also discovered that I did not just want to do it with anybody, that somehow something sometimes happens between two people which more or less pulls them towards each other, and that unless something like this is happening, it is not going to be very good.
It is in this moment that much else can arise. Arguably the source of all human life on the planet - see Luce Irigaray for more on this - when a man and a woman come together in that dance of love and babymaking. Of course this should be seen as neither normative nor imperative, it does not mean that sex is only for making babies or that only men should do it with women. It remains a demonstrable fact that there is a powerful desire between sexuate human being to get sexual with each other, which is still, despite the seriousness of this strange cultural battlefield, magical and mysterious.
More importantly though, why are we not telling young people about this?
Presumably young folks today have as powerful impulses as my generation and go about their own voyages of sexual discovery ... or not?
Are they thwarted and stifled by the mass of misinformation and nonsense they hear from their TRA friends, put off by crass soulless internet porn, ashamed by something?
I don’t know the answers to these questions but it does seem to me worth pointing out that learning about sex and who you want to do it with are complex, fumbling processes. They go on for many years and touch upon a magical moment of chemistry between human bodies, whatever their genitalia, that pulls them together joyously and intimately.
It’s quite simple really.
We need to teach young people about love.
I like the style. Maybe I'll borrow a few lines ;-)
Help yourself :-) although if you cite longer bits please acknowledge the source. Thanks :-) did you see my blog? It’s been a bit empty recently since I had the COVID. But I am hoping to get something together about paywalls and intellectual independence quite soon. Just have to put the finishing touches to my book :-)
www.visitscotland.blog
Ffs, straight men are the ones who need this video, if the orgasm gap is anything to go by. It is not homosexual men’s job to pick up straight men’s slack! Just gross.