Gay Men do not have heterosexual oral sex

My response to a video entitled "How to eat pussy for gay men"

Observe if you will above the homophobic call for socially mandated bisexuality. Gender being never less than obvious, it will apparent that this video amounts to a conversion therapy attempt hosted by some imbecilic Ken Doll playing dumb (for which he has some natural flair) as to the question of “how to eat pussy”. According to this chap, heterosexual oral sex is a natural and logical part of male homosexuality proving once and for all that gender’s real agenda is the existential annihilation of our community and identities. For anyone doubting that proposition there is your evidence, gay men should perform heterosexual oral sex and presumably those who do not should feel shame or guilt as to their exclusive same sex attraction (a direct echo of the religious nonsense so many of us have endured).

The Ken doll who had probably never heard of pronouns until a few years ago solemnly tells us that the first stage to executing proficient heterosexual oral sex is to inquire as to pronouns which he claims are apparently important. We’re then treated to platitudinous bilge about vaginas having “a lot of nerves” and various criticisms of “gay” men for their poor performance of heterosexual oral sex. There is then a lot of licking of some poor blameless orange for some reason. The final few moments are the piece de resistance of this homophobic car crash in which gay men are criticised for their ignorance of heterosexual oral sex before being told that such sex in fact makes one more, rather than less gay.

The term “gaslighting” cannot begin to describe just how homophobic and devious this digital social pressure on young gay men watching this must be.

You can judge the video for yourself here.

As is so often the case with the hateful nonsense of gender, we find ourselves squarely at the table of the mad hatter’s lgbT party with a strong emphasis on the T (which is apparently the sole concern of inflatable plastic internet Vichy gays who are trying to groom their brothers (who they ought to be protecting from this) into compulsory bisexuality.

You will observe that gender regards sexual boundaries as legitimate campaign targets for social pressure. The video presents heterosexual oral sex as normal for gay men, something to be explore, celebrated and above all - normalised. In so doing we see that gender and it’s educationally disadvantaged acolytes regard homosexuality as one might the opening offer in a contract negotiation. It is a status to be modified, corrected, educated and fundamental changed, converted even one might say via dayglow cheerful chatty videos like this.

It doesn’t seem to matter to gender ghouls that same sex attraction is a legally protected characteristic in the United Kingdom by way of s.12 of the Equality Act 2010. Further, a persons sexual autonomy and their right to have 100% control and mastery of their identity is traduced. We see that most clearly in the nonsensical and deeply homophobic suggestion that heterosexual oral sex in fact makes one more gay.

A message to younger gay men watching this video

Us older chaps can bat this lunacy off as the risible homophobic double speak it is, but the targets of these videos and the people I worry about are young gay men.

So to any young gay men watching this video I say the following:

(1) There is nothing in your same sex attraction that is morally wrong, shameful or in need of modification of correction. You do not need to change for people who cannot accept you as you are, they need to change and deal with their homophobic hate.

(2) Exclusive homosexuality is normal and protected at law. Do not feel alone. It is not normal (nor is it logical) to imagine gay men go round having heterosexual oral sex. Do not let this video make you feel lonely or ashamed of the fact you don’t want to do that.

(3) Your sexual boundaries are your own and you are not answerable to anyone for the decisions you make regarding which categories of people you will and will not have sex with. You do not owe anyone an explanation for your choices because you have sexual autonomy and that is important. Beware videos and people who attempt to tell you implicitly that their view or the world is normal and yours is not.

(4) Please remember gay people are most often targeted by gender over straight people because gender knows that gay people are far more likely to feel shame and guilt. This most frequently happens to lesbians with the “cotton ceiling” hate preaching but it’s now coming for us. Videos such as this trade on that and only work to isolate you or make you hate yourself if they can trigger that response. Do not give into it. You are not “ignorant” and participating in heterosexual oral sex does not make you “more gay”. It makes you a bisexual.

(5) Look after yourself. You face more of this homophobic rubbish than I ever did growing up and I can’t imagine what fortitude and strength it takes to be a young homosexual man right now. Please know that us older lads are fighting this as best we can on your behalf.

As ever gender overplays it’s hand

As a coda to the above……

The comments in response to this idiotic conversion therapy rhetoric were predictably brutal with many of us gay men having the temerity and downright rudeness to point out that homosexuality, by definition, involves sexual relations between two persons of the same sex. This is no doubt hateful and I’m sure in the upside down world of heterosexual oral sex somehow being homosexual it will be said that it is us who are the antagonists here and the conversion therapy rhetoricians who are the real victims.

Our plucky conversion therapy Ken Doll’s renamed his video. The reference to “gay men” being removed from the title. That’s half the job done, perhaps he can now be persuaded to take down this homophobic nonsense and apologise to the young gay men being gaslit by this nonsense.