The theft of our pain is the robbery of who we are - do not give straight "queers" "coming out", do not give them "female issues" - and remember saying you are homosexual not Queer is our defence
Thank you Dennis. Posted this on Twitter - and we need your voice back there! "Heartfelt, passionate & rightfully white-hot angry writing by Dennis Kavanagh. On transgender ideology: "It is grand theft absolute - it wants even your tears." This is a powerful & empowering must-read."
If we needed confirmation that white heterosexual men (of which i am one) are the most powerful demographic on our planet, the success of this ideology provides it. No other group could infiltrate so many institutions at the highest level in such a short time frame.
And as you say Dennis, they've subverted the narrative on minority struggles.
Ironically I'm cast as a bigot for standing up to this stuff, but it's harder to cast the gay community as bigots. That's why your voice us so important. The lazy uninformed woke middle class that are sleep walking society into this might just listen to you! More gay people need to speak out about this. Keep up the good work. A concerned Dad of 2.
Thank you again Dennis for your eloquence. On the money as per usual. The movement is a completely parasitical theft of gay men’s, lesbian (and all women’s) joy and pain.
On point, as always, Dennis. This appropriation of our pain is what disgusts me most. How dare they pretend they have periods, and period pain, what can they possibly know of being doubled up for hours with period pain, not being able to walk up straight because of it? What can they know of the terror and shame every woman and girl, feels, when she walks about worried that she may be showing a blood spot on her clothing? What can they know of childbearing, childbirth, breast feeding? What can they know of miscarriages? I have heard that there are some deviant men who experience sexual charge from infiltrating women's chat rooms where they discuss the pain of their miscarriage. I really thought I'd hit the lowest of the low when I learnt that. This appropriation of women's pain, of the pain of homosexuals, is perverse and cruel. Enough, I say.
Yes, you are right, Liz, they never will know the awful changes of menopause, neither the physical changes nor the psychological changes. And the shock and confusion of suddenly finding oneself in the grip of these changes. I will not yield an inch of my authentic womanhood to these thieves.
Good lord, they discourage women from taking HRT? Here in the UK the misinformation about the associated risks around breast cancer have been challenged by various female doctors and menopause and HRT are very much in the news. I suffered for five years trying natural routes until I finally came upon the change in approach and my symptoms have improved immeasurably. It is an unbelievable double standard to discourage women from life-changing and life-enhancing hormones, but blithely dole it out to imposters of the opposite sex. The ultimate male privilege, to get female hormones that are withheld from women. Beggars belief, like everything else about this sick ideology.
I’m a big fan of Gay. I use it at every opportunity.
Me: Happy Gay Pride!
“Umm... it’s LGBTQ Pride.”
Me: Oops! My mistake. When is Gay Pride celebrated?
Although I absolutely understand the appeal of homosexual. There’s “sex” right in the middle of it. As in, “sexually and romantically attracted to people who are the same sex as I am.”
It’s like the distinction between “Men who have Sex with Men” (“MSM” in HIV-prevention parlance) and Gay.
Gay is poppers and Harvey Milk and Tea Dance and the Village People and Stonewall and Gaydar and Longtime Companion and clones and Lypsinka and brunch and the White Night Riots and Giovanni’s Room and putting a giant condom over Jesse Helms’ house and Bette Midler performing in the Everhard Baths accompanied by Barry Manilow on piano and Greg Louganis and GLF and Harry Hay and the Mattachine Society and the Outing Controversy and getting an HIV test every month and Fire Island and Paul Monette and The Boys In The Band and “Oh honey no” and the fact that that was an orange cream pie thrown in Anita Bryant’s face and the deeper you go into gay culture and history the more you find.
(The references are “American Gay” as am I but I’m relatively certain there are similar touchstones in British Gay culture.)
Use of the word 'queer' does all the boundary blurring it intends and more. Its meaningless is essential to its meaning. Queer really isn't LGB, whatever that is. It's non-binary, it's trans, it's gender fluid, it's heterosexual people who once had a same sex kiss, or thought about having one. 'Sorry! Same sex? You bigot! You're obsessed with genitals.
'The only thing that matters is what's between our ears'. In this instance it's 'I'm a tortured twat waiting to be triggered and traumatised'. But you've noticed them - good. Then you need to think about them, a lot, and then react. If they hear they're 'stunning and brave', it'll do, but who cares about that? All the 'thems' who 'come out' as non-binary can hardly use that as proper confirmation that their identity isn't being respected and they're being marginalised, etc. At least misgender them/those/they, for fucks sake. Or forget to call them queer, because that's what they are' whoever they fancy. Especially NB boys who like girls, and NB girls who like boys.
"bourgeoise oppression tourists" You words smith. I also like to call them skin walkers.
How do we get these teens growing up to understand queer is a slur just like the N word? I watched a movie the other day called Do Revenge on Netflix where the lesbian character calls herself queer. Every Hollywood flick keeps calling lesbians queer and gay men queer.
I was a teen in the 80's I know exactly what your talking about.
I am politically homeless now. After 39 years of being a Democrat. I had a lady come to my door last night looking for votes for some lady for assembly woman. She rolled out the tired slogan " She supports Planned Parenthood." I told her I do not support Planned parenthood. It is Transing kids and gives out cross sex hormones' and can give them to 14 year old's. I said if she supports Transgenderism I can not support her. The lady said " good night and walked away."
Thank you Dennis, spot on. And I will never forgive Russell T Davies for his lack of even a nod to lesbians helping gay brothers throughout the AIDS crisis in his TV drama It's A Sin. The deliberate overlooking definitely WAS a sin.
Thank you Dennis and another brilliantly fiery piece. I often read and reread what you write. But you said almost in passing that thugs had broken your leg. I didn't know and although unsurprised this makes me weep again. That's the result of real, actual hate, not these recently confected accusations of misgendering tosh intimidating people back in the closet or mutilating them. The more you write, the closer I feel as a woman to men going through this onslaught. It's bringing men and women together despite those attempting to cleave us apart. We used to be asked to go out with our male friends to stop them being beaten up and there was official University guidance advising it. The ripple of fear ran through everyone. We were all giving each other safety tips and actually talking about what we felt we could or couldn't do, where we could go or walk, and how we could 'be'. It was dangerous to be a man, and dangerous to be gay. It was dangerous to be a woman full stop, whatever our sexuality. Here we are right back there again because of trans activism with rising levels of homophobia and yet we are being accused of being bigoted.
I love hearing you and Clive reminiscing (with some locations I know). Sending you love and righteous anger.
This is exactly right. A renaissance of the use of the term 'homosexual' is needed. Its lack of ambiguity is the way to challenge the pernicious attempt by Gender Ideologues to rewrite our history and usurp our lives and experience AS homosexuals. Posted to Twitter and Facebook. I write about this issue for Country Squire magazine, which gets my critiques of GI's and the TRA's out to a primarily straight and also conservative audience. I think it is very important that we find as wide an audience as possible that we can educate about what's going on. https://countrysquire.co.uk/2021/04/28/descent-to-the-bottom/. x
Great piece Gary and completely agree - we must get these issues out there - most people are pretty horrified when you tell them what’s actually going on in the gender wars
Dennis, please subscribe to my substack as there is a lot more where this came from.... garysubstack@fastmail.co.uk. Are you going to the LGB Alliance conference? x
Dennis, thanks for subscribing. As I live in deepest mid-Norfolk it is a bit tricky to organise trips to London but I'm working on it! I'll keep you posted. PS I still want a Gay Men's Network T-shirt.... x
Impressive piece, Gary. Prose from minds like yours and Dennis's leave this officially elderly person spinning in admiration and just trying to keep up.
Thank you Dennis. Posted this on Twitter - and we need your voice back there! "Heartfelt, passionate & rightfully white-hot angry writing by Dennis Kavanagh. On transgender ideology: "It is grand theft absolute - it wants even your tears." This is a powerful & empowering must-read."
Ah cheers Rob - I will put in another appeal post Musk mate :)
If we needed confirmation that white heterosexual men (of which i am one) are the most powerful demographic on our planet, the success of this ideology provides it. No other group could infiltrate so many institutions at the highest level in such a short time frame.
And as you say Dennis, they've subverted the narrative on minority struggles.
Ironically I'm cast as a bigot for standing up to this stuff, but it's harder to cast the gay community as bigots. That's why your voice us so important. The lazy uninformed woke middle class that are sleep walking society into this might just listen to you! More gay people need to speak out about this. Keep up the good work. A concerned Dad of 2.
Thank you again Dennis for your eloquence. On the money as per usual. The movement is a completely parasitical theft of gay men’s, lesbian (and all women’s) joy and pain.
On point, as always, Dennis. This appropriation of our pain is what disgusts me most. How dare they pretend they have periods, and period pain, what can they possibly know of being doubled up for hours with period pain, not being able to walk up straight because of it? What can they know of the terror and shame every woman and girl, feels, when she walks about worried that she may be showing a blood spot on her clothing? What can they know of childbearing, childbirth, breast feeding? What can they know of miscarriages? I have heard that there are some deviant men who experience sexual charge from infiltrating women's chat rooms where they discuss the pain of their miscarriage. I really thought I'd hit the lowest of the low when I learnt that. This appropriation of women's pain, of the pain of homosexuals, is perverse and cruel. Enough, I say.
Yes, you are right, Liz, they never will know the awful changes of menopause, neither the physical changes nor the psychological changes. And the shock and confusion of suddenly finding oneself in the grip of these changes. I will not yield an inch of my authentic womanhood to these thieves.
Good lord, they discourage women from taking HRT? Here in the UK the misinformation about the associated risks around breast cancer have been challenged by various female doctors and menopause and HRT are very much in the news. I suffered for five years trying natural routes until I finally came upon the change in approach and my symptoms have improved immeasurably. It is an unbelievable double standard to discourage women from life-changing and life-enhancing hormones, but blithely dole it out to imposters of the opposite sex. The ultimate male privilege, to get female hormones that are withheld from women. Beggars belief, like everything else about this sick ideology.
Ha ha. That's a good one. Mine is mentalpause!
I’m a big fan of Gay. I use it at every opportunity.
Me: Happy Gay Pride!
“Umm... it’s LGBTQ Pride.”
Me: Oops! My mistake. When is Gay Pride celebrated?
Although I absolutely understand the appeal of homosexual. There’s “sex” right in the middle of it. As in, “sexually and romantically attracted to people who are the same sex as I am.”
In defense of Gay...
It’s like the distinction between “Men who have Sex with Men” (“MSM” in HIV-prevention parlance) and Gay.
Gay is poppers and Harvey Milk and Tea Dance and the Village People and Stonewall and Gaydar and Longtime Companion and clones and Lypsinka and brunch and the White Night Riots and Giovanni’s Room and putting a giant condom over Jesse Helms’ house and Bette Midler performing in the Everhard Baths accompanied by Barry Manilow on piano and Greg Louganis and GLF and Harry Hay and the Mattachine Society and the Outing Controversy and getting an HIV test every month and Fire Island and Paul Monette and The Boys In The Band and “Oh honey no” and the fact that that was an orange cream pie thrown in Anita Bryant’s face and the deeper you go into gay culture and history the more you find.
(The references are “American Gay” as am I but I’m relatively certain there are similar touchstones in British Gay culture.)
Use of the word 'queer' does all the boundary blurring it intends and more. Its meaningless is essential to its meaning. Queer really isn't LGB, whatever that is. It's non-binary, it's trans, it's gender fluid, it's heterosexual people who once had a same sex kiss, or thought about having one. 'Sorry! Same sex? You bigot! You're obsessed with genitals.
'The only thing that matters is what's between our ears'. In this instance it's 'I'm a tortured twat waiting to be triggered and traumatised'. But you've noticed them - good. Then you need to think about them, a lot, and then react. If they hear they're 'stunning and brave', it'll do, but who cares about that? All the 'thems' who 'come out' as non-binary can hardly use that as proper confirmation that their identity isn't being respected and they're being marginalised, etc. At least misgender them/those/they, for fucks sake. Or forget to call them queer, because that's what they are' whoever they fancy. Especially NB boys who like girls, and NB girls who like boys.
Can't be with you, can't get with you, can't be you, can't control you, so nothing will do except total absorption and subsumation.
I call it #AutogynephilicCannibalism
Powerful as always.
> They like queer because it blurs boundaries - that's why they use it. Homosexual conversely permits of only one obvious definition.
This in particular.
"bourgeoise oppression tourists" You words smith. I also like to call them skin walkers.
How do we get these teens growing up to understand queer is a slur just like the N word? I watched a movie the other day called Do Revenge on Netflix where the lesbian character calls herself queer. Every Hollywood flick keeps calling lesbians queer and gay men queer.
I was a teen in the 80's I know exactly what your talking about.
I am politically homeless now. After 39 years of being a Democrat. I had a lady come to my door last night looking for votes for some lady for assembly woman. She rolled out the tired slogan " She supports Planned Parenthood." I told her I do not support Planned parenthood. It is Transing kids and gives out cross sex hormones' and can give them to 14 year old's. I said if she supports Transgenderism I can not support her. The lady said " good night and walked away."
Thank you Dennis, spot on. And I will never forgive Russell T Davies for his lack of even a nod to lesbians helping gay brothers throughout the AIDS crisis in his TV drama It's A Sin. The deliberate overlooking definitely WAS a sin.
I found it difficult to watch for precisely that reason.
Plus Olly Alexander irritates the absolute living hell out of me lol
Thank you.
Thanks for the read Dennis. Just shared on twitter - hope you're back on the bird app soon!
Great. I want my GMN T-shirt, though, Dennis. x
Thank you Dennis and another brilliantly fiery piece. I often read and reread what you write. But you said almost in passing that thugs had broken your leg. I didn't know and although unsurprised this makes me weep again. That's the result of real, actual hate, not these recently confected accusations of misgendering tosh intimidating people back in the closet or mutilating them. The more you write, the closer I feel as a woman to men going through this onslaught. It's bringing men and women together despite those attempting to cleave us apart. We used to be asked to go out with our male friends to stop them being beaten up and there was official University guidance advising it. The ripple of fear ran through everyone. We were all giving each other safety tips and actually talking about what we felt we could or couldn't do, where we could go or walk, and how we could 'be'. It was dangerous to be a man, and dangerous to be gay. It was dangerous to be a woman full stop, whatever our sexuality. Here we are right back there again because of trans activism with rising levels of homophobia and yet we are being accused of being bigoted.
I love hearing you and Clive reminiscing (with some locations I know). Sending you love and righteous anger.
Hey what a lovely comment, thank you so much.
This is exactly right. A renaissance of the use of the term 'homosexual' is needed. Its lack of ambiguity is the way to challenge the pernicious attempt by Gender Ideologues to rewrite our history and usurp our lives and experience AS homosexuals. Posted to Twitter and Facebook. I write about this issue for Country Squire magazine, which gets my critiques of GI's and the TRA's out to a primarily straight and also conservative audience. I think it is very important that we find as wide an audience as possible that we can educate about what's going on. https://countrysquire.co.uk/2021/04/28/descent-to-the-bottom/. x
Great piece Gary and completely agree - we must get these issues out there - most people are pretty horrified when you tell them what’s actually going on in the gender wars
Dennis, please subscribe to my substack as there is a lot more where this came from.... garysubstack@fastmail.co.uk. Are you going to the LGB Alliance conference? x
Certainly am! GMN will have a stall - see you there!
Dennis, thanks for subscribing. As I live in deepest mid-Norfolk it is a bit tricky to organise trips to London but I'm working on it! I'll keep you posted. PS I still want a Gay Men's Network T-shirt.... x
I'm afraid that my chance to stay with a friend who lives in London has fallen through, so it looks like I wont be able to come.
Sorry to hear that mate, it will all be filmed though and I'm gonna take some iPhone videos of me and Clive :)
Impressive piece, Gary. Prose from minds like yours and Dennis's leave this officially elderly person spinning in admiration and just trying to keep up.
That's a very nice thing to say, thankyou. x